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Repair your relationship and overcome any struggle with no-nonsense counseling advice. Guy Stuff has helped millions with our support for men and the women who love them.
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Guy Stuff Counseling and Coaching is here when you need help, guidance, and solutions for life's most difficult challenges.

More than 22 million people have turned to us for advice on...

The Love is Gone

Having a partner that loves you but is not in love with you is one of the most painful things to accept. And if it comes as a surprise, it can leave you emotionally shattered.

How do you figure out what’s going on in your partner’s head?
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Midlife Crisis

Pushing a partner to deal with his midlife crisis can send him deeper into it.

What’s the best way to respond to what your partner is going through? And how do you come out the other side?
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Porn Addiction

Women think almost every man has one. Men want to believe they don't have a problem.

So what’s the truth about porn addiction and how do you deal with it in your relationship?
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Other Areas Where We Specialize
You can find support at Guy Stuff Counseling for the most frustrating and painful circumstances. Our specialized counseling for men (and  women) will help you find answers to the most complicated problems.

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Because men and women don't always speak the same language.

Guy Stuff specializes in counseling for men, as well as the women who love them. We focus on the strategies that work best for men and know how to support their partners – helping both to bridge the communication gap. Our goal is to get results as quickly as possible, while providing tools that make those changes long lasting.

"For more than 22 years, I've counseled thousands of men and women to find success in overcoming life’s challenges with a proven approach." 


- Dr. Kurt Smith

Guy Stuff Counseling and Coaching is –

Goal Oriented

Counseling should help you get where you want to be, not just talk about where you are. Our meetings focus on setting clear, achievable goals so you can make real progress in your life.

Focused on Solutions

You don’t just want to vent – you want answers. We cut through the noise and focus on practical solutions that work, so you can move forward with clarity and confidence.

Direct, Actionable, 
Collaborative

No fluff, no vague advice – just honest, straight-to-the-point guidance tailored to your situation. We work together to create an action plan that fits your needs and gets results.

Guy-Friendly and 
Partner Approved

No judgment – just real talk from someone who understands how men think and what works best for them. Our approach is built to be comfortable, effective, and results-driven.

Don't Go It Alone Any Longer – Get Guy Stuff Counseling

Guy Stuff offers online counseling, in-person meetings, individual counseling, couples therapy, group meetings, and affordable instruction manuals that lets you ease into getting the solutions you need while going at your own pace.
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How We Can Help

At Guy Stuff Counseling, we understand that navigating life can be tough.

 Whether it’s relationship, mental health, or personal growth struggles, our expert counseling services provide the support you need to overcome obstacles and create lasting change. We offer convenient on-demand instruction manuals, group meetings, and one-on-one counseling and coaching all designed to fit into busy lives. With compassionate, practical guidance, we help men and the women who love them break through barriers and become their best selves.

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Testimonials
"I can't begin to thank you enough for your support, guidance and perspective. Dr. Kurt, you helped me through a very difficult time of self-doubt, questioning and pain, and got me (and my family) to a better place. Yes, I admit there's still work to do, and change I still need to implement, but I feel like I've got a different perspective on our relationship and the tactics I need to use to continue improving as a person and husband. Thank you, thank you, thank you...for everything."
– Marty, South Carolina, USA
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Recent Articles from Guy Stuff Counseling

Anger Management
Signs Of Anger And Resentment In A Relationship

Relationships aren’t just love, connection, and good times. Successful couples also need to be able to navigate difficult emotions. Two of the most challenging are anger and resentment.

Marriage Problems
What Do I Do When My Wife Hates My Family?

Have you ever thought, My Wife Hates My Family? If so, you’re not alone. See what can cause Your Wife To Hate Your Family and what you can do about it.

Anger Management
The Difference Between Anger And Resentment And They’re Place In Relationships

Emotions are tricky things. They can flare up in an instant or slowly build over time, reshaping how we perceive ourselves and the people closest to us. Find out more.

Porn
Why Your Boyfriend Watches Porn Then Wants Sex With You

Women ask Why Does My Boyfriend Watch Porn Then Want Sex With Me? See what a relationship counselor for men says about men Watching Porn And Wanting Sex,

Divorce Advice
How To Help Your Teen Deal With Divorce

Divorce can cause major turbulence in an already complicated time for your teen. Learn more here.

Divorce Advice
What To Do When Your Husband Wants To Separate

Do you fear your Husband Wants To Separate? Find out the signs a Husband is thinking about Separation.

Frequently Asked Questions

We know you may have questions about how counseling works and what to expect. Our goal is to provide clear, straightforward answers to help you feel confident in taking the next step. Whether you're exploring one-on-one counseling, group meetings, or our on-demand resources, we're here to guide you every step of the way. Find more FAQ here.

How much does Guy Stuff Counseling cost? 

At Guy Stuff we believe counseling costs should be clear, simple, and straightforward. So, our counseling and coaching costs the same whether you come alone or together with a partner. A 45-minute meeting with Dr. Kurt is $260, and 90-minute meetings are $520. Counseling fees are the same whether sessions are done in-person, by video, or over the phone. We also don’t charge extra for couples or families. We realize our fees are on the high end, but Guy Stuff Counseling offers very unique and specialized expertise, and because of our approach, we get great results. We do offer free resources on our website (articles and quizzes), and low-fee digital products (under $50) to make our help accessible to everyone.

Does insurance pay for counseling?

Yes, most health insurance will reimburse for counseling (according to the policy limits). However, at Guy Stuff Counseling we don't take insurance as payment or bill insurance companies in order to protect your privacy and prevent other risks to you. If you'd like to use your insurance to pay for counseling with us, you'll need to check your insurance plan and find out if it will reimburse you for out-of-network mental health counseling. Many insurance plans have reimbursed Guy Stuff patients, so it's possible yours may too.

Here are a few important things to consider as you decide whether or not to use your insurance:

• Your therapist has to give you a mental disorder diagnosis in order for you to use your insurance. This goes in your medical record and can negatively affect you in the future by potentially increasing the cost of your medical and life insurance, as well as your ability to qualify for coverage.

• Your therapist has to disclose your treatment records and write reports to your insurance company about what you work on together. We value your privacy and the patients we work with want their counseling treatment kept private, so we will not do this.

• Your insurance company can dictate treatment, both in what problems you can work on and for how long. We believe that this should be your choice, not theirs.

• If you were ever involved in any kind of court case and your medical records were subpoenaed, your having a mental disorder diagnosis could negatively affect you.

• Insurance companies have provider lists of therapists they have contracted with which they want you to see. We believe you should choose who you work with, not your insurance company. By using their list of counselors you may not find the best one for you, one with the expertise and experience you need, and thus not get the best results.

What's men's counseling like?

Men's counseling at Guy Stuff Counseling is like talking to a buddy in your living room. Only this buddy really knows what he's talking about and will give you advice that’s been proven it works. We’re here to be your partner and resource while we walk you through the process of addressing your challenges in a safe, non-judgmental environment. It’s counseling designed specifically for guys and their ‘stuff,’ by guys who’ve dealt with a lot of the same ‘stuff.’

Our men's counseling is:

• 'Guy-friendly'

• Focused on problem solving

• All about taking action

• Conducted in a 'guy style' that's conversational but also direct and goal focused

It's not:

• 'Touchy-feely'

• Talking things to death

• A lot of talk about your childhood

• Techniques that don't work for men

Over 97% of Guy Stuff Counseling patients and clients have told us they were satisfied or highly satisfied with the help they received and the results they achieved.

Regardless of the reasons you’re seeking counseling, we’re not here to judge – and we won’t. Whether you’re struggling with an affair, addiction, or anger management, our primary goal is to help you deal with your problems head on and find solutions as quickly as possible.

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Don’t put off getting the help you deserve. Whether you’re looking to improve your relationship, navigate a tough life transition, or gain better control, Guy Stuff Counseling is here to support you.

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